Should Your Cats Sleep With You?

Should Your Cats Sleep With you

Letting your cats snuggle in your bed at night is a personal decision, with many pet parents either firmly for or against the practice. But do you know how your cat feels about the idea of hanging out on your bed at night? The answer may surprise you!




According to cat expert Dr. Lynn Bahr, it’s natural and normal for cats to want to be with us when it’s time to shut off the lights. She notes that, “During the first few weeks of their lives, kittens stay tightly knitted together for warmth, security and safety. For many, it is a habit they retain into adulthood choosing to curl up next to their owners for the same companionship and comfort they had when they were young.”

That’s all well and good, but what if your cat thinks that bedtime is playtime? Here are some tips to help you and kitty enjoy a snuggle while also getting a restful night’s sleep!

First off, having a sleepy cat when bedtime rolls around solves many nocturnal problems. Keeping your cat active during the day is key to insuring that he’s ready to slumber at night. Have toys that he likes to play with by himself readily available: puzzles with snacks inside are a sure-fire way to get him active! If you’re able to, play with kitty before it’s time to go to bed, and he’ll learn to associate the session with bedtime.

Do you ever get sleepy after a good meal? Of course you do, and the same principle applies to your BFF! Providing food before bedtime will encourage his natural instincts to nap after a meal.

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Once you and your fur baby are settled in for the night, how do you keep him peaceful and quiet? If your favorite cat thinks it’s fun to jump on you, bite at your toes, or cry to get your attention, there are a few things you can do to discourage these habits.

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First off, do not let your cat think that he’s being rewarded for waking you up. Playing, feeding, or talking to your cat sends the message that waking you up is ok. Since he misbehaves to get your attention, not giving it to him discouraged his actions. If you do need to get up after he’s awakened you, avoid contact for at least 10-15 minutes so that he doesn’t associate his behavior with your attention. If that doesn’t work, remove him from your room and shut the door!

We’d love to hear how you get your feline friend to “sleep tight” at night, let us know your tips and suggestions!

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29 Comments
  1. Maureen says

    These are great tips, I always say that cats have a mind of their own. I think of them as independent pets who aren’t easily trained. I love the idea of having a snuggly cat though!

  2. Pam Wattenbarger says

    Our cats sleep with us. They really don’t disturb us too much, but one of them has allergies and sometimes she snores.

  3. Theresa says

    My dogs sleep in the same room as us, but not on the bed. I have a hard time with extra bodies in the bed, but they seem content to sleep on their beds next to ours.

  4. Guest says

    These are great tips, I always say that cats have a mind of their own. I think of them as independent pets who aren’t easily trained. I love the idea of having a snuggly cat though!

  5. Guest says

    Our cats sleep with us. They really don’t disturb us too much, but one of them has allergies and sometimes she snores.

  6. Guest says

    My dogs sleep in the same room as us, but not on the bed. I have a hard time with extra bodies in the bed, but they seem content to sleep on their beds next to ours.

  7. Seattle Travel Blogger says

    We are more of dog people. But we let our dog sleep with us.
    I guess that is no different than cat people letting their cats sleep with them.

  8. Jeanine says

    Our cats always sleep with us, and so does one of our pups the odd time. They love snuggles and i think it makes them feel safrer!

  9. Guest says

    We are more of dog people. But we let our dog sleep with us.
    I guess that is no different than cat people letting their cats sleep with them.

  10. Guest says

    Our cats always sleep with us, and so does one of our pups the odd time. They love snuggles and i think it makes them feel safrer!

  11. Adrianne Betz says

    My cat is too rowdy to sleep with. I wish I could though.

  12. Louise Bishop says

    If I had cats you better believe they would be sleeping with me. I love cuddling with animals.

  13. Kita Bryant says

    My hubby is too sensitive to cat fur to allow this. Too bad, I love my kitties.

  14. Dawn McAlexander says

    I have only had one cat that I even considered letting sleep with me, but he usually wouldn’t. I am not opposed to it if that’s what people like, but my allergies would kill me if I had a cat in the bed with me.

  15. Guest says

    My cat is too rowdy to sleep with. I wish I could though.

  16. Guest says

    If I had cats you better believe they would be sleeping with me. I love cuddling with animals.

  17. Guest says

    My hubby is too sensitive to cat fur to allow this. Too bad, I love my kitties.

  18. Guest says

    I have only had one cat that I even considered letting sleep with me, but he usually wouldn’t. I am not opposed to it if that’s what people like, but my allergies would kill me if I had a cat in the bed with me.

  19. Amanda Love says

    I think it’s nice to have your cat sleep with you. They’re naturally affectionate and they always look for warmth. It’s important that you play with the during the day, kind of like the kids, tire them out and they’ll sleep for the rest of the night.

  20. Guest says

    I think it’s nice to have your cat sleep with you. They’re naturally affectionate and they always look for warmth. It’s important that you play with the during the day, kind of like the kids, tire them out and they’ll sleep for the rest of the night.

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  22. Shannon Gurnee says

    I never thought about letting your cat sleep with you. My parents have 2 kittens and they can’t have them sleep in their bed because they’ll keep them up all night long – or sleep on their faces. Ha ha!

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    I never thought about letting your cat sleep with you. My parents have 2 kittens and they can’t have them sleep in their bed because they’ll keep them up all night long – or sleep on their faces. Ha ha!

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  29. ethel newberry says

    Well, it’s a cat!!! Where else are they going to sleep??? You don’t expect it will sleep in that $39.00 cat bed I bought, do you??? lol!!! lol!!!

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